Combating the Vocabulary Gap Between Rich and Poor Children

          Recent research has raised concerns that the vocabulary gap is widening between children from families of varying socioeconomic status. By 18 months, socioeconomic status differences in language processing skills and vocabulary are already visible. By the time a child is three-years-old, those growing up in lower-income families may hear up to 30 million fewer words than children from higher-income families. What does this mean for these children as they grow up? By the time a child is ready to attend school, those from lower-income families have been shown to score two years behind on standardized language development tests.

            What is causing this gap to emerge as early as infancy? Researchers believe parenting styles and home learning environments are the two most crucial factors contributing to income-related gaps in school readiness. Many parents don’t realize the power they hold to foster learning in their children prior to beginning formal education. The good news is that if parents are given the proper knowledge and skills, they can help close this vocabulary gap starting with their own children.

Toddlers learn vocabulary through context, so the faster a child recognizes words they already know, the better they can figure out and learn the following words in the sentence. A parents’ best bet to combating this language and vocabulary gap is to turn off the television, read to their child, and use more child-directed speech. These simple techniques have shown greater efficacy in children’s language processing, therefore increasing a child’s vocabulary. Researchers have created a simple method for parents and caregivers to use to expand a child’s vocabulary:

·      Tune In: pay attention to what the child is focused on or is communicating to you

·      Talk More: use lots of descriptive words to build their vocabulary

·      Take Turns: engage in conversations with the child

By utilizing these three simple methods, parents can help increase their children’s

vocabulary at an early age. High school achievement gaps between socioeconomic statuses are already visible in kindergarten. Since most language development and vocabulary gaps are already evident by age two, it is critical to encourage development early on to prevent a ripple effect throughout the rest of the child’s life. However, parent education intervention studies with low-income families have shown very promising results. By using techniques to foster language development early, parents have the ability to change their child’s life trajectory.  

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Raising Successful Children

           Everyone wants to be a great parent, but what are some of the best ways to raise happy and successful children? The optimal parent is one who is involved, but not too involved, one who is responsive to their child’s needs and sets high expectations, but respects their child’s independence. Children of these “authoritative” parents perform better academically, physically, and socially. By not being overly involved, your child will develop higher confidence and motivation.

In one study, a researcher gave children a simple puzzle to solve and only some of the children were told how bright and capable they were. Children who were not given the praise were more motivated to tackle more difficult puzzles, showed higher levels of confidence and greater overall progress in puzzle-solving. These results show that praising talents and abilities actually decreases a child’s confidence because they risk losing their status by trying more difficult puzzles. Other studies have shown similar findings, for example, supporting a child’s independence and limiting parental involvement results in better academic and emotional outcomes.

Parents of successful and happy children did not do for the child what the child could do or could almost do themselves. Children face challenges everyday that they must learn to overcome on their own without their parent taking over. Parents must understand that their children need to experience successful failures, or failures that the child can live with and grow from. Depriving children of challenges also deprives them from learning the skills they’ll need to survive in life. Not everything in a child’s life is always going to go according to plan, so parents must learn to accept this and allow their child to be independent.

Overparenting can be detrimental to a child’s confidence, motivation, and independence. Children flourish when their environment is reliable, consistent, available, and noninterfering. Allowing children to make mistakes can be anxiety-provoking for parents, but parents must learn to control their anxiety to allow their children to manage the given situation on their own. Unhappy and unfulfilled parents are more likely to be prone to overparenting, so make sure your needs are also met in order to be the very best parent you can be. Happy parenting!

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