Combating the Vocabulary Gap Between Rich and Poor Children

          Recent research has raised concerns that the vocabulary gap is widening between children from families of varying socioeconomic status. By 18 months, socioeconomic status differences in language processing skills and vocabulary are already visible. By the time a child is three-years-old, those growing up in lower-income families may hear up to 30 million fewer words than children from higher-income families. What does this mean for these children as they grow up? By the time a child is ready to attend school, those from lower-income families have been shown to score two years behind on standardized language development tests.

            What is causing this gap to emerge as early as infancy? Researchers believe parenting styles and home learning environments are the two most crucial factors contributing to income-related gaps in school readiness. Many parents don’t realize the power they hold to foster learning in their children prior to beginning formal education. The good news is that if parents are given the proper knowledge and skills, they can help close this vocabulary gap starting with their own children.

Toddlers learn vocabulary through context, so the faster a child recognizes words they already know, the better they can figure out and learn the following words in the sentence. A parents’ best bet to combating this language and vocabulary gap is to turn off the television, read to their child, and use more child-directed speech. These simple techniques have shown greater efficacy in children’s language processing, therefore increasing a child’s vocabulary. Researchers have created a simple method for parents and caregivers to use to expand a child’s vocabulary:

·      Tune In: pay attention to what the child is focused on or is communicating to you

·      Talk More: use lots of descriptive words to build their vocabulary

·      Take Turns: engage in conversations with the child

By utilizing these three simple methods, parents can help increase their children’s

vocabulary at an early age. High school achievement gaps between socioeconomic statuses are already visible in kindergarten. Since most language development and vocabulary gaps are already evident by age two, it is critical to encourage development early on to prevent a ripple effect throughout the rest of the child’s life. However, parent education intervention studies with low-income families have shown very promising results. By using techniques to foster language development early, parents have the ability to change their child’s life trajectory.  

To read more details about this article and the studies discussed, please click here.

Raising Successful Children

           Everyone wants to be a great parent, but what are some of the best ways to raise happy and successful children? The optimal parent is one who is involved, but not too involved, one who is responsive to their child’s needs and sets high expectations, but respects their child’s independence. Children of these “authoritative” parents perform better academically, physically, and socially. By not being overly involved, your child will develop higher confidence and motivation.

In one study, a researcher gave children a simple puzzle to solve and only some of the children were told how bright and capable they were. Children who were not given the praise were more motivated to tackle more difficult puzzles, showed higher levels of confidence and greater overall progress in puzzle-solving. These results show that praising talents and abilities actually decreases a child’s confidence because they risk losing their status by trying more difficult puzzles. Other studies have shown similar findings, for example, supporting a child’s independence and limiting parental involvement results in better academic and emotional outcomes.

Parents of successful and happy children did not do for the child what the child could do or could almost do themselves. Children face challenges everyday that they must learn to overcome on their own without their parent taking over. Parents must understand that their children need to experience successful failures, or failures that the child can live with and grow from. Depriving children of challenges also deprives them from learning the skills they’ll need to survive in life. Not everything in a child’s life is always going to go according to plan, so parents must learn to accept this and allow their child to be independent.

Overparenting can be detrimental to a child’s confidence, motivation, and independence. Children flourish when their environment is reliable, consistent, available, and noninterfering. Allowing children to make mistakes can be anxiety-provoking for parents, but parents must learn to control their anxiety to allow their children to manage the given situation on their own. Unhappy and unfulfilled parents are more likely to be prone to overparenting, so make sure your needs are also met in order to be the very best parent you can be. Happy parenting!

Click here to read a more in-depth article on this topic from the New York Times! 

Excessive Praise May Actually Be Harmful to Children

    Over the years, more and more research has focused on the effects of praise across a variety of situations. Praise has been used as a motivator and it often acts as a reward for children, but recent research raises questions about the effects of excessive praise on children's behavior. Turns out that excessive praise may be detrimental to children with low self-esteem. Adults are twice as likely to use excessive praise towards children with low self-esteem, in comparison to children with high self-esteem. This makes sense because adults often want to give additional praise to the children that seem to need it most, however, this appears to have the opposite effect on children with low self-esteem.
    In one recent study, children drew a Van Gogh picture, and were either given: inflated praise (e.g. "You did an incredibly great job!"), non-inflated praise (e.g. "You did a great job!"), or no praise by a professional painter. Then, children were given the choice to draw one of two types of pictures: an easier picture where they wouldn't learn much, or a difficult picture where they would make lots of mistakes but would also learn a lot. Children with low self-esteem who received inflated praise were more likely to choose the easier picture to draw.
    So what exactly is inflated praise doing to children with low self-esteem? Praise sends a message about future standards and expectations. When a child with low self-esteem hears excessive, inflated praise, they feel that they must do exceptionally well or else they will disappoint others, therefore they shy away from challenges that could result in failure. So, it seems that, like with many things, the best practice is to praise in moderation - don't overdo it.

    To learn more about these studies and what others are saying about them, please visit the following links:

“Stop Heaping Praise on Your Kids”  

http://www.washingtonpost.com/lifestyle/on-parenting/stop-heaping-praise-on-your-kids/2014/01/06/84a9a2fe-7710-11e3-8963-b4b654bcc9b2_story.html

“When Praise Hurts: The Psychology of Gushing”

http://www.huffingtonpost.com/wray-herbert/when-praise-hurts-the-psy_b_4269342.html

Understanding Children's Emotions

    Understanding the importance of emotions in children is crucial to understanding how emotions guide their thoughts and behaviors. Recent research has defined interest as a key emotion that may be the first to develop in infancy, then later stimulates children’s curiosity, motivating them to explore the world around them and to learn from their experiences.  Parents are encouraged to respond enthusiastically to their children’s interests, increasing opportunities for meaningful conversations which builds stronger family relationships.

     Although some children don’t show “typical” interests (e.g. reading or school work), parents are encouraged to determine what does interest their child, and to engage in their interests. Over time, parents can help their child turn theses interests into constructive projects, but parents must meet them half way through support and encouragement.

To read a more detailed article about this concept of understanding children's emotions, click on the following link: http://www.huffingtonpost.com/kenneth-barish-phd/understanding-childrens-e_b_3594455.html .

What interests and activities do your children enjoy? How do you encourage your children to pursue their interests? Submit your comments below! 

Project Update!

The MSU Minds, Attitudes, and Parenting project is pleased to announce that we've reached the midpoint of our study, and have had a great turn out thus far! Over 65 children and their parents have participated in our study over the last six months. Interesting results between children's behaviors, their brain activity, and their parents' attitudes are beginning to emerge. We will be presenting some of these findings at the upcoming meetings of the Association for Psychological Science in San Francisco and at the Intellectual Humility conference in Saint Louis. We're very excited about the data we have collected already and are even more excited to see what the next six months will bring! Thank you to everyone who has already participated in this study and to those that have helped spread the word about our research! It has been a pleasure working with the families and we hope the results of our study will provide helpful information in return in the not too distant future. In the coming year, we hope to begin posting results from our study and, begin providing workshops and events to inform the public about our research. Until then, we are still looking for children and parents to participate over the next six months, so please continue spreading the word about the MSU MAP project. For more details about this research study, feel free to e-mail us at msukidlab@gmail.com or visit our website at www.msumap.org .

How to encourage good behavior in your child

Parents often resort to using bribes to encourage their children to engage in desired behaviors, but research shows that bribes do not work in the long run. What should parents use instead of bribes to encourage good behavior in their children? Here's a few take home messages from the New York Times article provided below:

•  Turn every task or behavior into a game
• Make it a challenge for your child to engage in a specific behavior or task
• Give prizes spontaneously
• Give your child a choice in what they'd like as a reward
• Use praise as a reward
• Focus on the process it took to achieve the desired behavior, don't focus on just the desired behavior

To read the full article, visit http://www.nytimes.com/2013/01/13/fashion/modifying-a-

childs-behavior-without-resorting-to-bribes-this-life.html?pagewanted=1 .